Visualize Your Valentine!
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When I was a child, Valentine's Day was always a happy occasion. My
"sweetheart", my father, that is, would always bring home
four heart shaped boxes of chocolate. The big box would be for my
mother and the three small boxes were for my two sisters and myself.
The candy inside and the pretty box tied with a red bow were what I
expected and received, and this simple act by my father made me feel
special and loved.
When I left home and moved to the West Coast, Valentine's Day became somewhat less than what I expected and a lot less enjoyable. I was single and alone in a new city and was just beginning to make my way in the world. In later years, when I moved from Los Angeles to San Francisco, I started to date more and occasionally had a "boyfriend". But inevitably, by the time Valentine's Day rolled around, I was single once again. I tried buying my own box of chocolates but it just wasn't the same!
San Francisco is a fantastic and exciting city but when it comes to the male population, there are basically three types; married, gay, or unable to commit. At the age of 34, I was about to throw in the towel, give up my apartment, move to Montana and marry a cowboy! But my psychic explorations led me in a different direction. As I worked more and more with my guide, giving readings and teaching others to channel, I discovered that the best part of working with spirit guides is that once you are "connected" your guides will work with you toward your personal goals. I came to this realization by a series of unrelated but similar events. In one such occurrence, I needed new shoes but was short of cash at the time. In fact, I had lost a fifty-dollar bill while running to the bus a day earlier. I did not mention this to anyone, and yet in a matter of days a close friend handed me a brand new pair of shoes because she had decided that she did not want them! Casual private thoughts about needing a watch would result in my finding a perfectly good watch in the grass as I walked up the hill to my house. These occurrences happened again and again. I finally realized that Ish was trying to teach me something new. It was simply that spirit guides will work with you towards your needs and goals. Your guides don't "make it happen", but they have a way of leading you in the right direction and creating choices and opportunities for you.
Once I learned this lesson, I reconsidered my plan to leave San Francisco in search of the "perfect man". I learned to use my psychic abilities in a way that would bring that perfect someone to my own doorstep. The psychic energy involved in working with your spirit guide to find your life partner involves affirmation, clarifying steps, and the process of visualization.
First, you must truly know that you are READY to meet that special person. This is more complicated than it sounds.
Ask yourself some very important questions:
Are you willing to change/alter your lifestyle and habits?
Are you willing to make compromises?
Are you willing to be with one person sexually for the rest of your life?
Are you willing to move from your apartment, your city and even your home state for someone?
Are you willing to have children, or at least consider the possibility of children?
Last but certainly not least, are you willing to have a mother-and father- in law and a whole set of relatives in your life?
If the answer to all of the above is a resounding "YES!" then you can proceed to step two, or what I call "making the list". Imagine the perfect companion/lover for yourself. Describe this person in detail, and in writing. Be sure to include everything from looks, to personality, to whether or not she/he eats crackers in bed!
Step three is to find a quiet private spot and read the description in the form of an affirmation. As with all affirmations, speak in the present tense, and be specific as to when you are meeting this person. For example, " I am meeting my life partner in January 2002. He/She has the following qualities&ldots;..".
Step four is the visualization process. In this step, close your eyes and imagine the person walking up to you. You can visualize as many or as few physical details about the person as you wish. You can even add dramatic touches to your visualization.
In my personal visualization, I imagined my perfect partner walking toward me across a bridge. As this image played in my mind, Ish decided to test me. I began to see old boyfriends popping their heads up from under the water under the bridge. I promptly "drowned" then as quickly as they appeared. Do not be afraid to create these imaginary "executions". They have no effect on the actual persons, but they are effective in clearing your visualization.
I repeated this affirmation/visualization process several times that year. I met three men, each of whom, in succession, was closer and closer, in personality, face, and nature, to the man I was seeking.
The third man became my husband when I turned thirty-five. We have been together for eleven years and are very much in love. As the old saying goes, neither of us are "perfect", but we are perfect for each other.
Have a Happy Valentine's Day!
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Love and Light,